Trying to Make Sense of Scary Nonsense ... in Relationships or Politics? This will help.
If you’re paying attention to the political situation in the USA, regardless of your opinions, the world can feel pretty scary.
Many people are in fear and even feeling hostile towards others because they’re afraid of what will happen to them and the people and world they love if the other side gets into power.
It helps so much to understand that ...
we all have 2 brain modes -- our Thriving Mode, that’s smart and creative and can work with others to create the best possible solutions,
and our Survival Mode, that only sees threats and tends to turn everything, big or small, into a matter of life and death.
This is the same part of us that can feel absolutely certain that a loved one rolling the toilet paper the wrong way is a huge act of betrayal.
Unfortunately, our Survival Self *doesn’t know how to solve problems or make life any better. EEK!!
It only knows how to stay alive from this moment to the next. And it’s programmed to use – and even defend "to the death" -- anything it can to survive this moment of perceived threat … no matter how destructive and self-sabotaging that method actually is.
And no matter who or what gets killed off – including our health, our relationships, our job, our reputation -- anything.
This is the 5-year-old part of us that’s not only 100% WILLING but DETERMINED to cut off our nose to spite our face.
We’ve all been there.
And we’ve all watched OTHER PEOPLE go there.
The really sad thing is that when we let our Survival Self get in the driver’s seat of our life and see life as a battle to stay alive, it actually destroys whatever it is that we really value and want to protect.
We don’t have to be embarrassed about this, because we ALL go there ... because it’s a factory installed part of being human.
The good news is, you can learn how to get your scared, reactive, scary Survival Self out of the driver’s seat of your life and relationships.
Because, we don’t want anyone’s scared, reactive Survival 5-year-old running our lives, relationships, or politics, do we?
That’s why I do what I do.
I’m here to help you put your Thriving Self back in the driver’s seat, so you can get what you really want and find real solutions to the challenges you face.
Because in the end, your Survival Self will let the genius part of you come out and be in charge, when you learn how to genuinely consider and care about the real values and goals that both your Thriving and Surviving parts agree on, that are hidden behind your Survival Self’s pesky, problematic shenanigans.
You can learn how to THRIVE, no matter what’s going on in the world around you, or what illusions your Survival Self is mistakenly caught up in, right now.
And you can learn how to engage with other people’s Survival Selves so that they know they’re seriously considered and cared about.
Because that’s what dissolves the illusion of life-and-death threat.
That’s what helps us all calm down, and step away from mistaken, destructive fighting to survive, so our Thriving Selves can come out and start creating workable solutions … together.
If you’re serious about changing the world, from our politics to your most important relationships, I can help you learn what it takes to get your Survival Self out of the driver’s seat, so your wise Thriving Self can drive, and help others do the same.
If you’d like to learn more about how our Survival Selves work, including how you can tell when they’re active and mucking things up ...
If you’re ready to create a fast, revolutionary shift in how you meet the challenges of your life, your relationships, and our political landscape ...
Click here and comment "let's thrive" to get the download
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You’ll be amazed at the immediate, increased clarity and power that’s available, when a little light is shone on these hidden parts of our humanity.
Blessings on us all, no exceptions.
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